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Pho For Three

~ a family love story

Pho For Three

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It Just Takes a Little Love

18 Tuesday Sep 2012

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Seven hours left and I cannot say thank you enough to each and every one of you who has chosen to support this campaign. Your kind words and financial support mean the world to me. As the Indiegogo part of the project winds down, I’ll be forwarding money on to the Children of Vietnam (www.childrenofvietnam.org) and to Mrs. Hanh to help with her dream of opening a restaurant.

Mrs. Hanh heard a rumor that we were coming back; I’m so hoping we can make it sooner than later.

I hadn’t realized back when I started this campaign that our dear Mrs. Hanh would be losing her job as the Tam Ky cook this month and that the dream to open a restaurant was more than that, but a new avenue to support her family. I am grateful that together we’re able to help her.

Her position as cook ends this month due to the lack of volunteers going to Vietnam. The organization we went with has had to close down the center in Tam Ky and the children we learned to love back in 2007 and met in 2009 and those who have come to orphanages since will remain. But there will be no more volunteers to play games with them or bring them extra food and clothing.

I didn’t know any of this when I started, but something propelled me and I kicked off a handmade clothing drive soon after the Indiegogo campaign began. I’m thrilled to say that so far I’ve received more than 50 items for the orphans (pencil pouches, book bags, dress, tees, shorts and skirts) from four countries. The (loose) deadline is still two weeks from now and I can only imagine what will come for the children in that time. It honestly thrills me to see each new item, something handmade with love for children they will never meet.

Without all of your support, I could not have done any of this. To you I say thank you from the very bottom of my heart. My heart that is so tied to Vietnam, to Hanoi and Thanh Hoa and Tam Ky. I am grateful for you, for them, for the chance to spread the love and do just a little good in the world.

xo! teresa

Can you name them all?

07 Friday Sep 2012

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contest, fruit sellers, Indiegogo, photo, Tam Ky, Vietnam

One of the things that has really stuck with me since our time in Vietnam is my love of fruits. I guess I’d never realized how many there were that I had never tried or heard of, but my mind was blown by the variety. My sweet tooth was thrilled by it! I still miss fresh mango and pineapple, but I make do. There are a few fruits I can get here (those are the easy ones to identify below) and some that just can’t seem to make the trip across the ocean with any flavor intact (some of those are there, too).

I wanted to share some of those favorites with you and thought I’d make a little contest of it. It’s only open for those who’ve pledged to our campaign, a little extra incentive. I’ll make you a lovely market tote to carry your groceries, or anything else, in if you are the first person to name them all correctly. English or Vietnamese names are acceptable.

On your mark, get set, GO!
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(This is a fruit seller in Tam Ky, just down the road from our volunteer house. It also happens to be the spot where 9-year-old Audrey was snatched by a local and dragged a bit down the road yelling “đi nhà!”go home! Not one of our better days.)

We’re cooking’ now

07 Friday Sep 2012

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I guess it isn’t exactly cooking in the normal sense, but we’re prepping for the cookbook. I came up with a pretty good list of Vietnamese foods we came to love while living there and now it’s time to prepare and photograph each one of them. Tonight it was sinh tố bơ, otherwise known as an avocado shake, and Vietnamese yogurt, sữa chua.

With our out-of-season heat today, it was the perfect dessert!

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There aren’t enough Thank You’s in the world

02 Sunday Sep 2012

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Crinkle Dreams, Figgy's Patterns, Go Go Kim, Imagine Gnats, Kim Niedzwiecki, Laurie Wisbrun, Rachel Gander, Rashida Coleman-Hale, Sewn Studios, Shelly Figueroa

I can’t even begin to tell you how mind-blowing it has to been to watch my little idea to garner help in making handmade clothes/gifts for our orphan friends in Tam Ky grow incredibly over the past two weeks.

I knew there were folks out there that I knew and admired who would help along the way, but I never expected the outpouring of offers to sew up a bag or dresses or a stack of receiving blankets or sling bags. It’s been amazing and I am incredibly grateful.

We’ve been lucky enough to have some friends from the fabric industry step up and offer to spread the word, which has helped immensely.

Specifically I’d like to thank:

Laurie Wisbrun, a fabric designer I’ve admired for a couple years now. I interviewed her for an article I was writing for WebCents magazine, then talked briefly of book-writing and sewing clothes. A friendship blossomed and she sewed up a ton of skirts, shorts and pencil bags for my project, then shared it on her blog.

Rashida Colemen-Hale, another fabric designer I adore. She’s a wonderful lady and mother, a woman I just happened to run into a million times at Spring Quilt Market and develop an online friendship with. She’s got amazing style! I got a ton of messages thanks to her posting the Sewing for Orphans project not only on her blog, but on Pinterest as well.

Sewn Studios, a modern fabrics & sewing lounge, shared the word thanks to the suggestion of Rachel Gander, the blogger behind Imagine Gnats. We’ve yet to meet in person (same with Laurie!), but that hasn’t stopped her from supporting my cause or us from becoming friends over Facebook and blogs. God bless the Internet for making new friends, really.

Which is how I met Kim Niedzwiecki, the whirling dervish behind Go-Go Kim. I first heard of her when I found the cathedral window pincushion tutorial (which I made and gave away in the swap Rachel mentions in her post!). We finally had a quick meeting at the Kona booth at Spring Quilt Market and through that and a crazy amount of FB Likes and comments, we’ve become friends of a sort. She was one of the first to post about my project and I’m super grateful she got it going.

And an enormous thank you to Shelly Figueroa, who was not only the first person to post it on her blog for me, she was also the first contributor to our Indiegogo campaign. Despite the fact that she lives locally, we hadn’t met in person. But I had interviewed her, again for work, months before, regarding her fantabulous book  Sewing for Boys book (written with Karen LePage).

Again and again, I’m awed by the kindness of people. And I am always grateful.

Does editing ever end?

28 Tuesday Aug 2012

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I am fairly certain that the answer is no.

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It’s amazing how many times I have revised sections of the book. Now, in anticipation of having a professional editor read it, I am petrified that I am doing it all wrong.

The real struggle is keeping the voice, my voice consistent. I fall back into business writing sometimes–cold, but detailed. I can write scenes just fine (even Cheryl Strayed told me that when she read an excerpt) but getting the emotions in there is a different story.

That’s the thing about memoir; it’s all about admitting your weaknesses, your pain, your failings. Without them, it isn’t nearly as enjoyable to read. But putting them in is a constant struggle for me.

Rest assured, dear reader, you’ll know more about me and the things I have done, both right and wrong, by the end. You can thank the myriad writers and friends who have made me promise to edit and add and re-word until the pain shows through. I thank them profusely.

Progress comes in all forms

24 Friday Aug 2012

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There are some days I wonder why I decided to do this, but most days I’m still just wishing I had a dozen or so more hours to get things done. The to-do list is staggering these days between work, making a cookbook, editing/re-writing a book, running a sewing drive and trying to get folks to support the fundraiser. Add in family obligations, too. Those are never-ending, right?

But really, every day I’m grateful for a little more support. Today it was in the form of a guest post on Threadbias.

The sewing community has been awesome and I’ve got a handful of people already willing to make things for my orphanage friends. So. Grateful.

Sewing for Orphans

15 Wednesday Aug 2012

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One of the projects that I’ve really wanted to do for a long time is to have things made for the orphans in Tam Ky. I’ve made a few things and we’ve been lucky enough to have people donate clothes, toys, books and money that we brought along on our last two trips to the orphanages.

But I always wanted to make it bigger than me just sewing a few things for a handful of kids. That’s where you come in.

Affectionately known as The Tinies, we worked with them at the Home of Affection.

As part of our Pho for Three fundraiser, I’m heading up a charity sewing drive to get quality, handmade items to these kids I love so much. There are five things, in particular, that I’m asking for: shorts, dresses, messenger bags, pencil pouches and simple diapers. Depending on your time, sewing abilities, spare fabric, etc. you can pick whichever one you want to make. With more than 100 kids ranging from newborn to 17 years old, there’s plenty of leeway.

Here’s the nitty-gritty for you:

  • Sewing starts now! I will need to receive items by September 30, 2012so they can go back with a friend who is stateside in September. She is currently living in Tam Ky and will be doing some transporting. Otherwise, items will be shipped via DHL (cash donations to cover that cost are welcome) and brought with us if we are able to return in Spring 2013.

    Teresa, Lan and baby at the Tam Ky Baby Orphanage

  • You can send them to me directly, please email for the address.
  • Items should be sewn with the intention to hold up under heavy use. The kids don’t get new things very often, so they need to wear well.
  • If you are interested in donating something else (shoes, jackets, blankets, quilts, cash), please contact me to make arrangements.

To get you started, here are some great online tutorials and some links to patterns that would be perfect for this project!

Messenger Bags:

Basic Messenger Bag from mmmcrafts
Not-so-big Messenger Bag on Sara’s Sew Sweetness blog
The Megan Everyday Bag from Modkid Patterns

Pencil Pouches:

Zippered pencil case from Sew4Home
Pencil-shaped pencil pouch from Gwenny Penny
Zakka-inspired pencil pouch from Noodlehead

Shorts and Pants:

Basic elastic-waist pants  from Dana Made it (pattern here)
Banyan shorts from Figgy’s Patterns

Dresses:

Popover Sundress from Oliver & S (free pattern here)
Dress a Girl Around the World dress pattern from Totes by Sandy

Diapers:

Simple triangles of cotton: Easily made by taking a 25-inch square, cutting it into two triangles and finishing the edges (serger or turned seams).

The Children of Vietnam (NGO) works to provide formula for these babies. This little guy was one of my favorites–always happy! He has since had his cleft lip and palate repaired thanks to donations.

For each of the next four weeks, I’ll be posting my own tutorials on making each of these items as well as sewing up as many as I can.

Thank you so much! I really can’t do this without each of you. I honestly believe that one person can make a difference, but it’s so much better when it’s a bunch of us working together. If you have any questions at all, please ask in the comments below or email me.

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Yay! The cards arrived

13 Monday Aug 2012

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Just a few of the various pics we used for the new cards I ordered from Moo Stuart and I chose 20 different images from both our 2007 and 2009 trips that, to us, really evoke the feelings of being in Viet Nam. It’s nice to finally do something more with a tiny portion of the thousands of photos we took, too!

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It’s getting real

07 Tuesday Aug 2012

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The kids and I spent Monday afternoon trying to take care of all the necessary parts of photographing the cover for Phở for Three. I’ve had various ideas floating around for a while, all revolving around eating phở at the open market in Thanh Hoa. It was just across the street from Hong Duc University where I was teaching and we spent a lot of time there, eating both the noodle soup and another favorite: bùn chả. In the evenings, we’d head across the busy street and enjoy ice cream–our pale faces always the center of attention.

It was the memory of that market, along with the one in Tam Ky, that I wanted to honor with the cover photo.

We got the soup, its necessary accoutrements, along with Viet coffee and pineapple, then spent 20 minutes arranging and re-arranging the dishes until it suited me enough to start taking pics. Of course, last night I spent my insomniac hours wondering about every.last.detail.20120807-113508.jpg

But it’s done for now—just need some editing (by a skilled friend) to add in a few other elements and put the title on there. I’m afraid how long it’s going to take me decide on a font, though. Any ideas?

Through the kindness of others, it happened. Special thanks to Susan Beal, for letting us take over her backyard for an hour; to Prado, who let us borrow his camera; to Stuart, my photographer son who shot the photos; to Audrey, my fan-wielding daughter who shooed flies from the feast we’d set; and to both Phở Oregon and Fubonn for providing such authentically Vietnamese foods.

 

Thanks so much, everyone, for your support, your shares, your encouragement, and your belief in my little dream.

 

 

Well-used for good reason

03 Friday Aug 2012

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One of my very favorite recipes, this scrap of paper followed us through two trips to Vietnam and six kitchens. It’s been well used and has the oil/fish sauce stains to prove it.

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It’s just one of 15+ recipes in the cookbook I am making for the campaign. If you’re interested in it, check out the Indiegogo page to find out how to make it yours.

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When writer and mother Teresa Coates bought plane tickets to Vietnam for her kids and herself, she thought she was following her true love. Instead, she found that the love of her life wasn't a man – it was the orphaned and abandoned children in Tam Ky, the street sellers in Hanoi, and the graduate students in Thanh Hoa. She found a life that made her happier than she'd ever imagined, then had to leave it all behind. For love of family.

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